first off: congratulations to lisa at making life's lemons and rebecca at girl about chelts for winning the giveaway! links to their sites will be featured in the sidebar for the next month! they are both delightful ladies whose blogs i read regularly. you should definitely head on over and see what they are up to!
we are still trucking away through summer over here. the beastly heat has finally subsided a little, which should be helpful in preventing that face-melting look i've become used to wearing at work. currently we are most preoccupied with the upcoming move (you mean i have to do laundry and pack? boo). but it is still terribly exciting. i'm already fantasizing about the christmas decor options we have now that we get a fireplace and mantle!
on the whole lately, things are a tiny bit dreary. i don't often like to admit how much living in ann arbor can be a huge drag. i think it is a bit childish to blame your feelings and frustrations on the place where you live. it's a bit of the "grass is greener" mentality, which i refuse to subscribe to, and it just reminds me far too much of being an angsty high schooler spewing that line "if only i could get out of this town."
that said, southeast michigan has been a bit of a turd lately. it's something i often notice during summer. it's a cruel paradox that my favorite season has to be the one that totally buzzkills the city i live in.
i'm tired of settling for a rocky river and graffitied bridges, when i grew up minutes away from lake michigan.
i'm tired of living in a city whose roads were designed for about a quarter of the population.
i'm tired of how campus turns into a shadow of itself when the students leave.
i'm tired of how stupid slow-walking tourists fill in the blanks that the students left.
i'm tired of how it takes 25 minutes to drive the 1.2 miles between my home and my work.
i'm tired of the ridiculous metro detroit highway system.
i'm tired of how expensive it is to do anything besides eat counter food and take walks outside.
routine is one of those things that really wears me down.
maybe i should try reading eckhart tolle. either way steve and i made a pact to move out of michigan by a certain date (spoiler alert: it's not very soon). nothing against momma mitten (we totally think she's the bees knees) but we are only going to be young and childless for so many more years, and we'd both be letting ourselves down if we didn't explore a little bit more.
happy hump day everyone!
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Becky! I am so excited that I won! I never win things! YAY!
ReplyDeletexo Lisa
Making Life's Lemons
Ahh, Ann Arbor definitely does have its downfalls...doesn't it? At least it is beautiful out today: sunshine + a light breeze :)
ReplyDeleteyou are the only one who thinks ann arbor is a drag, my sister has been living there for the past three years and she doesn't really enjoy it. i visit her and i love it maybe it is a i have to live there year round to experience ann arbor truly
ReplyDeleteHaha yeah, as a place to visit it is terribly charming! I never want to knock a2 too much because I know the second we leave I'm going to miss it a lot, but it's the day to day drudgery that gets to you. though some form of that probably exists no matter where you live.
Deletecongrats to the giveaway winners! i've never been to ann arbor but i think i'ts normal to get tired of your city sometimes and wish you lived somewhere else.
ReplyDeleteOh how exciting an adventure is on the horizon! Love the kitty pix!
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Dressing Ken
I've never been to Ann Arbor but can relate to expensive city + annoying tourists! Having a fireplace/mantle sounds dreamy though!
ReplyDeletetotally understand about the day drudgery- it's getting me bad lately!
ReplyDeleteWell hello!! I'm so chuffed, I don't think I have ever won anything before! :)
ReplyDeleteCheltenham is very nice if you fancy a big move?! ;)
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: Girl About Chelts
I would absolutely LOVE it! I wish it were easier to find work as an expat! I've been praying to the international job gods that Steve could eventually put in for a transfer to the UK with his company! We'd still be a ways from Cheltenham (Wesco's UK branch is in Manchester) but I'm pretty sure I could die happy if we ever got a chance to live abroad. :)
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