Showing posts with label college. Show all posts
Showing posts with label college. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 27, 2014

what should "college-educated" mean?

i recently learned about a new push (and pushback) to include "trigger warnings" in the syllabi of college coursework.  long story short:  people cry 'yay' because it offers fair warning to victims of trauma that their college reading list my contain triggers for attacks of PTSD, people cry 'nay' because it is mollycoddling adults and a slippery slope to censorship.

my opinions on the topic are pretty lukewarm:  mostly, i think it is hilarious how tumblr-speak is now becoming part of a collegiate curriculum conversation, and can't wait to start seeing hashtags replace the dewy decimal system.  generally, however, the human suffering of giving literature something akin to parental warnings seems lesser than the suffering of someone with a history of sexual abuse and war violence unknowingly cracking the spine of cormac mccarthy's the road.  if trigger warnings are the wave of the future, i think free speech will probably live.

of course the debate bubbles around this concept of 'how-far is too far' when it comes to protecting trauma victims at the cost of treating 'feelings of discomfort' as legitimate problems to guard against in the academic sphere.  will reading huckleberry finn really ignite PTSD symptoms in a minority individual who has experienced the ugliness of racism?  while the answer probably depends on what exactly we mean by "ugliness," the question i haven't seen raised that seems to sit at the root of the debate is this:

what, as a society, do we want to create as the standard of being "college educated?"

if college students ought not risk the potential PTSD triggers in modern literature, or if college students ought not be mollycoddled with warnings of inflammatory subject matter, what SHOULD college students expect as appropriate psychological risk and protection, developmentally speaking?

in a social system, being "college educated" is a complicated trait.  impersonally speaking, it is a broad certification that tends to classify individuals as more-worthy-than-their-less-educated-counterparts of various economic rewards.  it can display a broad variety of things: the ability to either independently afford a college education, willingness to gamble on a college debt-scenario, or an extraordinary scenario where college is made affordable to an individual with special circumstances.  it implies one possesses either the inherent ability, salt-of-the-earth hard work, or some combination of the two to continue structured learning beyond the legal requirement.  further it suggests one places value on the institution of structured education.

but realistically, knowing merely that someone is college educated tells you very little about them.  nationally speaking, it simply places you in a sector of roughly 1/3 of the total population.  further a BS from stanford's engineering program isn't the same as a university of phoenix online BA in english, and while a degree may lump you into pleasant statistical categories about income and personal success, they are in no way guarantees you share the experiences of your statistically likely counterparts (PS the odds of being mark zuckerberg or bill gates aren't very good).

cries of the "dumbing down" of higher education reveal that many people believe trigger warnings to exist as a means to reduce the status of a college education in the social hierarchy, which seems like a poor argument in consideration of what it means to have a college education (independently speaking: not very much).  this likely doesn't come as a shock to the millennial generation: the best educated group with noticeably few economic returns in terms of employment and earning power.  as expectations for what a degree merits quickly begin to decrease, while expectations for what a lack of degree merits are dismal yet optimistic, we sit in an interesting place in terms of what being "college educated" means on the social level.

as a college education becomes less a method to guarantee financial security, and more a developmental life phase, the value of a college degree shifts inevitably.  if college nowadays is less of a cog in a socioeconomic class system (which certainly doesn't imply it is NOT such a thing, but merely that it is less so than in the twentieth century), and more of a safe space to build a foundation to adulthood thinking, how will this shape what we consider to be higher education in our world?

making the space of emerging adulthood safer and more comfortable leaves everyone in the familiar pull of generational conflict.  the expectations of the young, bred by their potentially coddled upbringings will likely lead to a safer more comfortable future (if history has any truth to it).  yet the experienced will know that the realities of life often make us feel unsafe and uncomfortable and we stress the need to toughen up and teach the young some of life's hard realities.  we hear the familiar conversation:  life is hard... shouldn't we make it easier?  but what then will happen to resilience?

do we make college a safer space?  what, then, will be the point of college?  it's a conversation limited not just to trigger warnings, but to partying, and hook up culture, and almost everything college touches.  as college is the "first step" into adulthood for many of the modern era, it seems we are still struggling with just how authentic adulthood should look and feel to bright eyed eighteen-year-olds.  real life doesn't come with trigger warnings yet, nor does it come with safety-guaranteed vodka or regret-proof condoms.  will it eventually?  should it?

Friday, May 31, 2013

advice to my 21 year old self


know your beliefs in terms of religion.  it helps you lead a more intentional life.

understand the difference between a natural desire for property and the desire to fill an empty life.

learn to like breakfast food (even if you aren't a fan).  eating after 8 pm makes you fat.

the world is full of mediocrity.  take advantage of that to make sure your life is not.

you don't owe it to anyone other than yourself to be anything just because you were born a woman (misogynists nor feminazis).

just because someone asserts their opinion, that doesn't mean they are ready to constructively discuss it.

if the best is available to you, don't apologize for choosing the best, but don't criticize the choices of people without your privilege.

etiquette, beauty, and a genuine smile can get you a lot of places, but it helps to have more up your sleeve.

hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!

Monday, May 6, 2013

big huge happy weekend

i can't decide what i should say about this past weekend other than:
it was AWESOME!

saturday i met up with steve's family and we all watched him graduate from college!  (ok maybe we watched thousands of little black specs graduate college, but one of them was steve!)  the weather was beautiful so we spent the afternoon picnicking at steve's house with his roommates and their families.







 sunday, after we both caught up on some much needed sleep, steve and i headed over to the west side of the state and spent a few hours enjoying the sunshine by lake michigan.




i don't think we could have asked for a better weekend!  it really feels like the end of an era, but it definitely went out with a bang and we couldn't be more excited to start the next chapter!

congratulations stevedor!  

hope everyone has a lovely week!
 

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

vacation photos: boone hall and the college of charleston


we decided we could just explore charleston without too much of a plan at first so we parked at the visitor's center and began wandering.  sometimes this doesn't turn out well (such as the time we didn't plan dinner and wandered aimlessly around kroger until i had enough food rage to eat the customers) but for our first day of touring it was perfect!

we first noticed the joseph manigault house, which is apparently a museum.  we didn't go inside, but it was pretty so steve got his picture (we also suspect joseph manigault was related to the founder of steve's fraternity, bros for lyfe, y'know).



speaking of food rage, i had a little bit of that when we started walking, but thanks to the fact that we were unknowingly on the campus of the college of charleston, we managed to find a moe's and stuffed our bellies with queso.  fun fact about the south?  they can serve beer at moe's down there!  whaaat?  clearly we had to get some just to prove we weren't imagining it!

(note that steve was given some free sunglasses and a drink koozie by some chick on a street corner promoting the x factor).





after lunch we discovered that we were on the campus of the college of charleston!  the area was too cute and we fantasized a little about what it must be like to hang out on the historic streets, and go to school where you don't need a parka to go bar hopping.  and then i annoyed steve by demanding a photoshoot in the lovely little campus courtyard we stumbled upon!


recognize this cute little family from behind?  i didn't at the time, but after we returned home theeverygirl.com posted a feature article on interior and textile designer caitlin wilson.  that's her in the pink coat, with her darling little family!  i had no idea we were touring boone hall plantation with a famous design blogger, but it was fun that we had a little retroactive celebrity sighting!  check out her blog!











we toured boone hall plantation which is the oldest, still operating plantation in the country!  the house and gardens were absolutely gorgeous, though i imagine the gardens are even more beautiful when the flowers are blooming more.  we spent a big chunk of our day enjoying the plantation and learned some fun facts.  the movie the notebook was filmed at boone hall and it is also where ryan reynolds and blake lively got married. clearly we picked a very romantic spot.


on our way back to the hotel we ran across these mutant chicken ducks.  i scrambled out of the car and stuck out my butt for some serious awkward tourist photos.  upon further investigation they turned out not to be the incredible mutant hybrid beasts i imagined, but instead are just a boring ugly breed of duck known as the muscovy duck.  boo.



we decided to finish up our day with cocktails in the hotel lobby since i found us such a swanky place to stay.  cheers!